This Is Your Life... And How You Tell It

The way people talk about their pasts reveals a(the graduation speech, complete with verbal
lot about how they approach and write the futuredrum roll); low points (the college nervous
For more than a century, researchers have beenbreakdown); and turning points. The entire
trying to work out the raw ingredients thattwo-hour session is recorded and transcribed.
account for personality, the sweetness andIn analysing the texts, the researchers found
neuroses that make the sluggishness andstrong correlations between the content of
sensitivity that make Andrew Andrew. They havepeople's current lives and the stories they tell.
largely ignored the first-person explanation -- theThose with mood problems have many good
life story that people themselves tell about whomemories, but these scenes are usually tainted by
they are, and why.some dark detail. The pride of college graduation
Stories are stories, after all. The attractiveis spoiled when a friend makes a cutting remark.
stranger at the airport bar hears one version, theThe wedding party was wonderful until the best
parole officer another, and the PTA board getsman collapsed from drink. A note of
something entirely different. Moreover, the tone,disappointment seems to close each narrative
the lessons, even the facts in a life story can allphrase.
shift in the changing light of a person's mood.By contrast, so-called generative adults -- those
"When we first started studying life stories,who score highly on tests measuring
people thought it was just idle curiosity stories,civic-mindedness -- tend to see many of the
isn't that cool?" said Dan P McAdams, a professorevents in their life in the reverse order, as linked
of psychology at Northwestern and author of theby themes of redemption. They flunked sixth
2006 book, The Redemptive Self. "Well, we findgrade but met a wonderful counsellor and made
that these narratives guide behaviour in everyhonour roll in seventh. They were laid low by
moment, and frame not only how we see thedivorce, only to meet a wonderful new partner.
past but how we see ourselves in the future."Often, too, they say they felt singled out from
Researchers have found that the human brain hasvery early in life -- protected, even as others
a natural affinity for narrative construction. Peoplenearby suffered.
tend to remember facts more accurately if theyIn broad outline, the researchers report, such
encounter them in a story rather than in a list,tales express distinctly American cultural
studies find; and they rate legal arguments asnarratives, of emancipation or atonement, of
more convincing when built into narrative talesHoratio Alger advancement, of epiphany and
rather than on legal precedent.second chances. Depending on the person, the
During a standard life-story interview, peoplestory itself might be nuanced or simplistic,
describe phases of their lives as if they werepowerfully dramatic or cloyingly pious. But the
outlining chapters, from the sandlot years throughpoint is that the narrative themes are, as much
adolescence and middle age. They also describeas any other trait, driving factors in people's
several crucial scenes in detail, including high pointsbehaviour.